The magic of a healthy doctor-patient relationship

The relationship between doctors and their patients has received philosophical and spiritual attention since the time of Hippocrates and still remains a keystone of care. But, unfortunately over the years, this special relationship has undergone a drastic transition. The onus for this actually lies on both the parties. On one hand, increasing number of litigations and the irrational use of social media has made the doctor fraternity more cautious while on the other, many patients claim that doctors treat them as consumers and the healing touch and warmth has gone.

Bobby Fischer once said “Nothing is so healing as the human touch”. As a doctor, it’s very important to counsel & interact with patients, so that their fears regarding the disease can be alleviated.

As a cancer surgeon, I feel that a healing touch is as important as a good surgical hand. Every doctor should make a sincere effort to strike a healthy relationship with their patients.

May the force be with you!!

 

 

 

(This was a card I recently received from one of may patient’s, whom I had treated for cancer)

Is it sexual harassment? 

Just got a very interesting message from a patient of mine:
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Should I call it sexual harassment ? Whenever I tell people I have breast cancer👙 they look at my breasts and keep guessing which one 🤔
While I do not bother to look at others kidney, prostate or rectum.

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These warriors are already battling this dreaded illness and they need our full support but the society just makes them more conscious of their disease.
Would love to know your views regarding this.

International Women’s Day 2017

Women are truly the real architects of society – I am fortunate to know so many courageous women, who continue to fulfil their personal & professional responsibilities despite battling breast cancer. Hats off to their fighting spirit!! Wishing all these beautiful women a very happy International Women’s Day

 

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Changing trend of Breast Cancer incidence in India

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Breast Cancer and the age wise distribution in India

This graph depicts the changing trend in the age wise distribution of breast cancer in our country. Over the years, the incidence of breast cancer has increases dramatically and there has been a higher increase in the incidence between 30-40 years of age. This is mainly attributable to the lifestyle changes visible in the Indian society. Another major factor, which is difficult to quantify is the increase in pollution levels.
It is important we realise this change and encourage patients to take corrective measure to control the modifiable risk factors like smoking, alcohol consumption, obesity. Also increased awareness is required, so that these cancers can be detected early.

What is the colour of a doctor’s money??

It can be anything but black! It is basically made of two layers of sodium chloride. The first layer was prepared by the sweat of the medical school. The second was formed slowly after obtaining the so called degree. The denomination of this money is determined by the degree one obtains, slogging it out in a rat race, sometimes also missing out on how their kids grow up. If you are on the surgical side, it has some blood red patches here and there. A physicians’ money may have grey (matter) color sprinkled about. A colleague working in anesthesiology, intervention cardiology or emegency medicine have it soaked in adrenaline. There might be a few dots of yellow on some money. Believe me, no pathologist spills the sample intentionally! Also don’t blame any body if E. Coli grows on some money. So, my friends, a doctor’s money can never be black. And the most amazing thing is that he can keep it minting till Alzeihmer’s or Parkinson’s!

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Post shared from Dr. Deepak Arora – a motivational speaker and a dear friend.

 

 

Why do we need a Mentor?

Years ago a school teacher saw a child playing games in the bushes. The child was no extraordinary, he was a simple child, playing games that kids of his age did. But it was that teacher who recognised the extraordinary and nurtured him to become one of the greatest Kings this land ever saw. It was the under the mentor ship of Chanakya that Chandragupta Maurya was able to establish the Kingdom of Magadha. Without the mentor, the king would have been nothing.

A mentor is a term derived from an old Greek legend in which a king who was heading for a war had to leave his son in the care of his very close friend, instead of leaving him to his wife and Mentor grew up to be a very wise and noble king.

You don’t need a mentor to gain knowledge. You have books and online sources for that. You need a mentor to learn the practical details and proper implementation of knowledge. These intricacies and working knowledge can only and only be taught by a guru or a mentor.

So why do we need a Mentor?
1) Recognising and achieving your potential: Had it not been for Chanakya, Chandragupta would have never realised his potential as a king. It was only after his mentor recognised his true potential, he became what he was. Similarly in life we can achieve what we want by perseverance and hard work, but we need a mentor to know our potential and bring out the best in us.

2) They know the right doors:
Dipa Karmakar made our country proud with her Produnova vault, had it not been for her mentor she would have never known what a Produnova vault is and the intricacies of landing it. She had the talent, but it was her mentor who shaped it and guided her on the path to reach the Olympics.
A teacher knows whats important and what are the shenanigans. They can show you correct ways and the right doors. This makes our journey to success more efficient and easy.

3) Use their pool of experience:
Your mentor knows more than you. They have been around longer and have seen things that you have’t. This means their experiences can tell you the mistakes that have been committed before and guide you towards the correct direction. Our life is too short to make all the mistakes ourselves and learn, it’s better to learn from the past and make a better future. They have walked the walk that you are walking, learn from them.

In the end I would like to quote the famous couplets by Kabir,
Guru govind dono khade, kaake lagu paaye. Balihari guru aapno, govind diyo bataye
“Teacher and Lord are both there, whom to be adore. but teacher you are great, who told us that god is greater”

DEAD POETS SOCIETY, Robin Williams, 1989

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This article was written in collaboration with Dr Prerna Motwani, Medical Content Manager, Curofy- India’s largest community of verified doctors and Dr Rohan Khandelwal.